“Everything comes to you in the right moment. Be patient. Be grateful.”
Have you ever had a moment where you realized that you had been doing something wrong, and you realized in a flash a much better way of doing it, then you started to berate yourself for not thinking of it sooner?
Yeah, me too!
I remind myself that I’m on a constant learning and improvement curve, and I can only apply what I know.
If I didn’t know something yesterday or last year, I’ve learned to be gentle with myself and not make myself feel guilty for not figuring it out sooner or for not searching out the information. We don’t always realize we don’t know something, until that wonderful moment when we do!
“When I know better, I do better.” – Maya Angelou
I’ve learned that as long as we’re working at doing what we can in our lives, that events and opportunities will occur in the right moments.
There will be ups and downs, that’s part of life.
We’re here to learn and to grow, to incorporate each lesson into our day to day lives.
I’ve struggled with feeling that doors weren’t opening quickly enough for my liking. I’ve questioned when they would open, for I was working so hard to achieve certain objectives!
When there are long delays with the forward progress I’m focusing on, I ask myself “What else do I need to do?”
It’s no use getting upset with God or the universe for not opening a door quickly enough if WE are actually required to do something crucial to allow the next events to unfold, much the way one single domino tile can set off a whole long line of tiles!
When my life seems to be stuck in neutral, I look carefully to see what else I need to do, for the universe usually gives me the time I need to accomplish it!
If you are feeling stuck, take a look at everything you are and possibly are not doing to see what else you can do!
When the time is right, ping, ping, ping, the cogs of the universe move!
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- 10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
- Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
- Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
- Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
- As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
- Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
- A healthy outside starts from the inside!
- Brain Rewiring
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Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves
By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!
Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
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I find myself needing this reminder time and again – as I often struggle with as if life is very slow and stuck for me, nothing is moving or evident for where I want to be. I never really beat myself for being wrong but more for spending Nothing days, non-productive days. I have become so much better though that I am exactly where I am supposed to be, I am being prepared for where I need to be.
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I’ve been needing to remind myself of this lesson too in the past days!
There are days when I don’t feel very productive so I try to do ONE thing! That one thing can make all the difference for me and definitely lifts my spirits for the day! 🌸🌸🌸
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That is my strategy too – I give myself permission to do just one thing that seems more important – an email that needs to be replied for example – and apart for that I tell myself it is ok to do exactly what you wish 🙂
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Right on!! Like you I feel so much better about not doing much after I’ve done one thing! Sometimes I feel inspired to keep going and other times I just want to have a relaxing day! Doing that one thing makes me feel that I didn’t waste my time! 😄🤣
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Hahaha LOL exactly!! – it does sound funny when I read it back from you, but hey it works and feels a happy life that way!
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I do agree! 🌸🌸
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