
“Everything comes to you in the right moment. Be patient. Be grateful.”
Have you ever had a moment where you realized that you had been doing something wrong, and you realized in a flash a much better way of doing it, then you started to berate yourself for not thinking of it sooner?
Yeah, me too!
I remind myself that I’m on a constant learning and improvement curve, and I can only apply what I know.
If I didn’t know something yesterday or last year, I’ve learned to be gentle with myself and not make myself feel guilty for not figuring it out sooner or for not searching out the information. We don’t always realize we don’t know something, until that wonderful moment when we do!
“When I know better, I do better.” – Maya Angelou
I’ve learned that as long as we’re working at doing what we can in our lives, that events and opportunities will occur in the right moments.
There will be ups and downs, that’s part of life.
We’re here to learn and to grow, to incorporate each lesson into our day to day lives.
I’ve struggled with feeling that doors weren’t opening quickly enough for my liking. I’ve questioned when they would open, for I was working so hard to achieve certain objectives!
When there are long delays with the forward progress I’m focusing on, I ask myself “What else do I need to do?”
It’s no use getting upset with God or the universe for not opening a door quickly enough if WE are actually required to do something crucial to allow the next events to unfold, much the way one single domino tile can set off a whole long line of tiles!
When my life seems to be stuck in neutral, I look carefully to see what else I need to do, for the universe usually gives me the time I need to accomplish it!
If you are feeling stuck, take a look at everything you are and possibly are not doing to see what else you can do!
When the time is right, ping, ping, ping, the cogs of the universe move!
Here’s some more food for thought:
- Being happy is a very personal thing and it really has nothing to do with anyone else.
- Find Joy in your Journey!
- 7 Rules of Life
- One day you wake up and realize you are truly happy from deep within your soul.
- 7 things to keep in mind
- 5 Daily Reminders: Say these to yourself in front of a mirror!
- 5 great how-to’s!
- How to set joyful goals
- “Letting go” – to be able to follow your Joy, and the incredible focus it brings to life!!
- Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
- You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.
- Change how you see and see how you change.
- Make yourself strong!
- WARNING: This post may be triggering! Instead of getting defensive, say, “Thanks for letting me know your thoughts. I’ll consider them.”
- It’s never too late to teach ourselves!
- Don’t speak negatively about yourself!!
- Stop hating yourself for everything you aren’t. Start loving yourself for everything you are.
- Creating Mindful Distance of Thoughts… what’s that?
- The power of words
- Resilience is knowing that YOU are the only one that has the power and the responsibility to pick yourself up
- I do not allow others to influence my thinking unless it is positive or uplifting.
- Affirmation: I am open and ready for exciting new times in my life.
- Sometimes the best things happen unexpectedly!
- You get world peace through inner peace.
- Affirmation: Every cell in my body vibrates with energy and health. Loving myself heals my life.
- Affirmation: I am in the right place at the right time, doing the right thing.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Blessings!
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Tamara
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I find myself needing this reminder time and again – as I often struggle with as if life is very slow and stuck for me, nothing is moving or evident for where I want to be. I never really beat myself for being wrong but more for spending Nothing days, non-productive days. I have become so much better though that I am exactly where I am supposed to be, I am being prepared for where I need to be.
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I’ve been needing to remind myself of this lesson too in the past days!
There are days when I don’t feel very productive so I try to do ONE thing! That one thing can make all the difference for me and definitely lifts my spirits for the day! 🌸🌸🌸
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That is my strategy too – I give myself permission to do just one thing that seems more important – an email that needs to be replied for example – and apart for that I tell myself it is ok to do exactly what you wish 🙂
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Right on!! Like you I feel so much better about not doing much after I’ve done one thing! Sometimes I feel inspired to keep going and other times I just want to have a relaxing day! Doing that one thing makes me feel that I didn’t waste my time! 😄🤣
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Hahaha LOL exactly!! – it does sound funny when I read it back from you, but hey it works and feels a happy life that way!
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I do agree! 🌸🌸
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