“I hope the next pandemic is ‘world love’ and may it spread like wildfire.”
In order to achieve world peace it would be very helpful if each person would develop an inner sense of liking themselves as well as working on healing their inner damage from their own pasts.
People who are comfortable living in their own skin and aren’t a bundle of raw hurt, don’t go around hurting others!
Hurt and damaged people hurt others.
People who are angry are also in pain, mentally and emotionally. They’ve been hurt, betrayed, disillusioned, and damaged from what they experienced, and haven’t had an opportunity to heal.
Healing is tough. It’s work. It takes time and isn’t accomplished on a single weekend retreat!
When people hurt others with words and actions, they’re venting out and pouring out what’s inside of them.
A beautiful way to help another person to work on their healing is to suspend judgement of them!
Instead of labeling someone negatively and treating them accordingly, what if we were to suspend judgement of them, suspend the need to “put them in their place”, suspend the need to retaliate, and instead watch and listen to what they may need!
There is so much fear in many people; there is a lot of anger; some of those emotions are a direct result of living through these times we’re going through.
However, with a lot of people, that was the extra torrent of rain which broke the dam, already weakened from struggling for years with PTSD, mental issues and emotional damage from the past.
If you’re in a situation where your anger flares up, practice “blowing out the candles”, which is taking a deep breath in, and then strongly blowing out the air. Do this 3 times.
It should help to calm the breathing and help to reduce the rising emotions.
Do it again another 3 times, as necessary.
Better to do breathing exercises than to do or say something regretful!
Venting may feel good in the moment, but it’s very damaging to both the giver and the receiver.
It’s obvious why it’s damaging to the receiver, but venting keeps the person doing it in a state where their Amygdala is in control of the brain.
We don’t feel good when our lives are controlled by anger and fear!
Something as small as “blowing out the candles” can create a change in the inner wiring of the mind!
“LOVE” can take many forms. Being gentle and kind with one another, being slow to anger, being neighborly and extending a hand, these are all things which don’t take a lot of effort on our parts, but which will help us repair individuals, families, and communities!
I’m sharing more posts which may be helpful for you:
- 10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
- Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
- Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
- Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
- As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
- Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
- A healthy outside starts from the inside!
- Brain Rewiring
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By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!
Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
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Mona Lee, I didn’t see any other attribution for credit. I did the best I could. If it is okay with you I will add your name to the credit. If not, let me know and I will take down the post.
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Reblogged this on Freethinkers Notes and commented:
Love as a health condition
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Right?! New perspective!! Thank you so very much for reblogging! I’m deeply appreciative of this share!
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Yes. Let’s hope your words do come true
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🤞🤞Yesss!! At least we can all start within ourselves, learning to like, even to love ourselves!
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🌸🌸🎵🎵
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I do give credit to the original author as well. Mona Lee I think
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I added her name to the bottom of the meme. I’m always happy when people reach out to me because some memes really don’t contain the information to be able to give credit, and many memes are shared so many times that the original person has been lost!
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I absolutely understand
I only gave my good wishes
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Lol! I understand!
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Hello, I am the writer and owner of Inspire Your Beautiful Soul. This was not written by Tamara Kulish. This is my writing. Please remove it or give rightful credit. Thank You.
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If you have a website to link to, I’d be delighted to add the link!
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I came straight from Pragalbha’s post and absolute happy to see so much value in what you write Tamara. The pandemic of love is what we need as humans and healing. True, we are broken as humans and that’s why we harm others in some way. We are all broken as human beings.
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Thank you so much for visiting! I appreciate that you followed your inspiration! I agree that we’re all broken in some way, but hopefully as we learn to understand that point we can all develop more compassion for each other! Compassion is easier to show when we feel an inner connection to another person!
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Loved the quote. A beautiful post to read 😍
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Thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to visit and to comment! Your own work inspires and lifts me!
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I hope that is the next pandemic too. In the words of bill & ted ‘be excellent to each other’
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Excellent, eh?! 😉😁
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Party on! 😎
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An amazing world pandemic that would be! 🙂
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Oh yes! It would be marvelous! Well, baby steps right?!
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Deep thoughts
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😊 bit with practical advice thrown in! 😊
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True😊😊
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☺️☺️
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