
“Never lower your standards just because you are lonely. It is better to be by yourself than to be with the wrong person.”
Don’t. Ever. Settle.
Follow your gut and don’t allow yourself to be misled by a fear that you might not find anyone better for you.

The wrong person for you can be perfect for someone else, just as the wrong person for someone else can be perfect for you.
If you agree to be in a relationship with someone who is wrong for you, both of you can end up deeply unhappy, trying to force love to blossom where it may not be able to grow properly.
It’s okay to be alone.
Make your decisions based on what you believe is right for you, not because you fear being alone!
The Italians have a quaint saying: “There is a lid for every pot!”
If you’re currently in an area where it doesn’t seem like there is anyone really suited for you, don’t settle! The universe can shift the winds to blow someone into your life, or shift your life so you blow into someone else’s!
Keep doing what you love and honor who you are by developing your skills in the areas which interest you the most!
Follow your dreams and create the life you wish for, and perhaps on that road in life you will meet the person who is the perfect match for who you allow yourself to become!
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- 10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
- Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
- Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
- Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
- As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
- Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
- A healthy outside starts from the inside!
- Brain Rewiring
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Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves
By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!
Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
My top 10 most viewed posts, plus a few bonuses!
A helpful trick to be able to overcome negatively Comparing Ourselves to others…
Do you only accept yourself if you look a certain way?
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Truth! It is just not worth it to do it any other way.
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I’ve seen too many people settle. 😣
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Yeah that’s a difficult journey.
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If only we’d listen to people who try to warn us!
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