Throw the resolutions out the window!
Just start by speaking kinder and gentler to yourself!
Throw out the harsh and judgmental self-talk.
What comes out of the mouth comes out of the heart.
It’s amazing what we can accomplish with ourselves when we start being nicer to ourselves!
Sending good wishes, hugs, prayers and good energy to you, your readers and you families! May this year bring bountiful blessings to each of us, and may our hearts grow peaceful!

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- There is no enlightenment outside of daily life – Thich Nhat Hanh
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Happy New Year Tamara!
My new resolution is a bit more vague this year making a promise to myself to be better focused – by sticking to 1-2 goals at once, trying not to follow all (often conflicting) advice and stop putting aside my priorities for the priorities of others.
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Oh, that is very good self advice indeed! Placing yourself higher on your priorities is good.
I’m sure you can do this! Even if you fall off the horse, you can get back on!
Happy New Year to you too James!
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True words! Thank you, Tamara, have a wonderful New Year!
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Thanks so very much! I hope you practice this in your head and heart too! May you and yours have a beautiful next year too!
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Amen! The harsh and judgmental self-talk take us nowhere. Self-love and positivity is the best path forward. Wishing you all the best in the year to come!!
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Thanks so very much! I appreciate your support! Wishing you all the best too!
Yes, it starts from within our own heads, to mindfully change those old tapes and to replace them with more positive words.
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I want to make more connections in 2023 but often I don’t keep my resolutions, so yes “being kinder to ourselves” resonates with me. I’m trying I say and the response I get frequently is “yes very!” 🙂
Best wishes for 2023 Tamara.
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Keep going Margaret! We get better with practice! You’re on the path. Keep trying for it takes a while to build up enough new neutral pathways to make it feel like it’s the natural path to be walking on!
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PS, sending you and yours wonderful best wishes for the future as well!
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Be nicer to ourselves – what a great goal! Thanks for all the positive energy — in this post and every other! Wishing you all the best in 2023!
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Thanks so much Wynne! I appreciate your supportive words! Sending you and your family the same well wishes too!
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We’re learning to do it Tamara, just takes a couple of years to break the hump on our backs. Have a happy new year dear lady, may it be close to your heart 🙂
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Thanks so much Mark! I send the same wonderful wishes to yyou and yours too!
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Blessings to you in the new year too! Hope it’s the best yet!
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Thanks so much! 😀 I wish you they very same blessings!
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