“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.” – Alexander Den Heijer
Doesn’t it seem like a natural thing to do when we fail, is to blame ourselves?
What if it’s something in our “environment” – inner or outer – which can help us to bloom?
What are factors we can look at to help reorient ourselves?
Find your tribe. Find your place to bloom. Feel good in your own skin. Find the thing which makes your heart sing.
These are all a few things to looks at, which may be starting points or stepping stones to becoming able to feel successful!
What if you’re self-sabotaging due to inner damage from the past which has left you feeling less worthy, or undeserving of the success you crave?
There are definite steps you can take towards healing and learning to leave the old inner messaging behind!
You are worthy of the time you wish to invest in yourself!
It won’t necessarily come easily or be quick, but your life will pass by anyway, so why not be gently, even slowly working on yourself?
Even baby steps are still steps forward!
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- Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
- Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
- As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
- Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
- A healthy outside starts from the inside!
- Brain Rewiring
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Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves
By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!
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Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
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6 thoughts on “When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”
Thank you for sharing this very rich post! Great insights!
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Thanks so much Art! I appreciate you stopping by and giving me supportive feedback! I’m so happy that this resonated within you! Isn’t is marvelous how a few words can help reorient our thoughts?!
You’re very welcome, Tamara. Yes, it resonated strongly. Keep up the great work! 🙏
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Thanks Art! Doing my best!