
“Never lower your standards just because you are lonely. It is better to be by yourself than to be with the wrong person.”
Don’t. Ever. Settle.
Follow your gut and don’t allow yourself to be misled by a fear that you might not find anyone better for you.

The wrong person for you can be perfect for someone else, just as the wrong person for someone else can be perfect for you.
If you agree to be in a relationship with someone who is wrong for you, both of you can end up deeply unhappy, trying to force love to blossom where it may not be able to grow properly.
It’s okay to be alone.
Make your decisions based on what you believe is right for you, not because you fear being alone!
The Italians have a quaint saying: “There is a lid for every pot!”
If you’re currently in an area where it doesn’t seem like there is anyone really suited for you, don’t settle! The universe can shift the winds to blow someone into your life, or shift your life so you blow into someone else’s!
Keep doing what you love and honor who you are by developing your skills in the areas which interest you the most!
Follow your dreams and create the life you wish for, and perhaps on that road in life you will meet the person who is the perfect match for who you allow yourself to become!
Got some more for you:
- Reach out and talk about it! Don’t suffer in silence!
- What is Shifting, and is it really so new? Is it good for Mental Health?
- Pulling in help to get help organizing: so incredibly powerful!
- Rearrange the letters in Depression, you’ll get “I pressed on”
- BAD, AWFUL days: how do we get over them?
- Confessions of a Former Anorexic
- Is depression a lack of faith? What happens when it is treated as such?
- You were never created to live depressed, defeated, guilty or unworthy!
- It’s okay to change your mind, even after making a declaration in front of family or peers!
- How do you know if you’re in the right place?
- Never think you don’t have an impact!
- It is safe to ask for help!
- Why we’re so attracted to people who end up abusing us
- Breathe, Darling. This is just a chapter. It’s not your whole story.
- Our inner head space… doing the inner shadow work
- What good is Intuition to us?
- Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can!
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Blessings!
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Tamara
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Truth! It is just not worth it to do it any other way.
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I’ve seen too many people settle. 😣
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Yeah that’s a difficult journey.
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If only we’d listen to people who try to warn us!
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