“If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.” – Lao Tzu

Many times in life we just need to accept the direction life takes us, because the actions of others and forces of nature are not necessarily things we can control.

There are other situations however where we do have a choice, for even when we choose to do nothing, it is still a choice!

Doing nothing or “going with the flow” is great when we like what’s happening in our lives, or at the least, when we have no big objections.

However, if we’re unhappy, then doing nothing works against us!

When we want to make a change, it isn’t always necessary to make a grand sweeping move and do it all at once.

Many times, changes are set into motion with a series of small moves.

When we create a plan, even the outline of a plan, simply starting with one small thing can give us the motivation and the momentum we need to continue!

At first we doubt we can, then we discover that we are capable, and lastly we celebrate accomplishing what we set out to do!

If you aren’t happy with yiour life right now, what can you do to change it?

• Do you need to get some training or classes?
• Do you need to relocate?
• Do you need to get out of debt and rebuid your credit score?
• Do you need to address some health or addiction issues?
• Do you need help with relationship problems?
• Do you need to start saving money for a downpayment?
• Do you need to get partners or fiancial help for a business plan?
• Do you need to do some inner work to find the strength and the confidence to move forward?

When we feel unhappy with our lives, it is very helpful to identify the problems, being very honest with ourselves.

Next, for each problem there is always a solution, and many times there’s more than one solution, so finding the one which seems to best fit with the problem is crucial to being able to change!

Lastly, set the plan into motion!

Unless we start taking the steps to move forward, nothing will change!

Please take a look at the books and Guided Journals I have for you, because sometimes we need to work out some inner issues before we can finally find the strength and the courage to move forward!

More thoughts:
It all begins with one single step!
I learned how to organize from Sesame Street!
Gentle ways to start setting boundaries
The Art of Giving ourselves permission to move ahead with a dream
Are you consciously opting out of the “Loser” myth?
Find your soul tribe, Stay positive and Love yourself!
People around whom you have to “walk on eggshells” are not your people.
Do what you can with what you have!
How do you know if you’re in the right place?
Happiness isn’t a destination or a Utopia, but it can be a gentle undercurrent to your life!
The next level of your life will demand a different version of you!
A head full of fears has no place to dream!
Be mindful, extremely selective and intentional about people you allow into your life.
Let yourself be drawn by what you really love; it will not lead you astray!
Training ourselves to use the gift of time
Fill your own cup first, you’re no good to anyone with an empty cup!

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Tamara

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