When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.

We see what we look for.

When we look for the negative in others, we’ll find it.

If we have anger or resentment against that person, the negativity appears amplified until it becomes the entirety of the person.

If we look for the positive in people, we can put the negative into perspective.

When we realize we ALL have the capability for negativity, that we ALL have baggage to one degree or another, it becomes easier to lose our pridefulness and to drop our judgmental behavior.

Choosing to see the positive in others is particularly difficult when we hold anger or resentment against someone.

I’m not immune to this, I have people in my life I need to shift my views about so I don’t carry those negative thoughts with me through my life.

Changing our thoughts is helpful for our own peace of mind.

I draw a line however when the person you’re seeking to minimize their negativity about is someone who is abusing or hurting you. Choosing to be blind to them can be dangerous.

When we choose to see the best in others it shouldn’t be at our own expense or at anyone else’s.

Choosing to see the best in others needs to be something we do for ourselves so we can live in peace.

I’m sharing more post which may be helpful for you:

• 10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
• Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
• Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
• Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
• As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
• Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
• A healthy outside starts from the inside!
• Brain Rewiring

More good stuff:

Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves

By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!

Challenge: When a negative thought enters your mind, think three positive ones. Train yourself to flip the script!

Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?

An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!

My top 10 most viewed posts, plus a few bonuses!

A helpful trick to be able to overcome negatively Comparing Ourselves to others…

Do you only accept yourself if you look a certain way?

A new you! Is this possible?

Please go to my Archived Posts page to find more wonderful posts to check out!

Blessings!
Thank you for sharing this post and for following me!
Tamara
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