“Be around the light bringers, the magic makers, the world shifters, the game shakers.
They challenge you, break you open, uplift and expand you.
They don’t let you play small with your life.
These heartbeats are your people.
These people are your tribe.”

Being around negative people is more than a downer, their negative outlooks affect us in many subtle ways.

We can feel guilty to show strength, joy, interest, ambition, or happiness out of a sense of misguided loyalty to people we love and care for. We understand they feel uncomfortable around our positivity, even feeling we may be disloyal to them, so we learn to downplay.

Over time this downplaying for the negative person wears us down; we lose some of our own light when we dim ourselves for others.

If we have more than one negative person in our lives the effect of dimming down multiplies, until we question our own abilities, our interests, our future, our plans.

I know what that’s like, because I had been around some very negative people for years of my life. As I made the difficult decisions to remove or reduce my contact with them, I found that I was able to increase my own feelings of positivity.

Making these decisions in our lives is very good for our mental, emotional and even physical health!

Making these decisions allows us to live our lives undimmed, unashamed, and feeling so much stronger and happier!

If you can’t remove the negative people, please look at reducing your time with them, for your mental health, and keep your heart open to making new friendships with the positive people!

I’m sharing more posts that may be helpful for you:

• 10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
• Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
• Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
• Affirmation: Today is a new day! I can do this!
• As we practice being gentle and kind with ourselves, we actually help to speed the process of helping our lives become more positive!
• Always believe that wonderful things can happen!
• A healthy outside starts from the inside!
• Brain Rewiring

More good stuff:

Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves

By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!

Challenge: When a negative thought enters your mind, think three positive ones. Train yourself to flip the script!

Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?

An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!

My top 10 most viewed posts, plus a few bonuses!

A helpful trick to be able to overcome negatively Comparing Ourselves to others…

Do you only accept yourself if you look a certain way?

A new you! Is this possible?

Please go to my Archived Posts page to find more wonderful posts to check out!

Blessings!
Thank you for sharing this post and for following me!
Tamara
https://tamarakulish.com/ Archived Posts: https://tamarakulish.com/archived-posts/

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Guided Journals help you work on a particular issue by answering questions to help see patterns and to find solutions:

Removing Inner Blocks,    Anger Journal,    Guided Anxiety Journal    Joy & Mindfulness Journal     My Boundaries Journal   My Inner Thoughts Journal   

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