“Self-worth is so vital to your happiness. If you don’t feel good about you, it’s hard to feel good about anything else.”
Self worth can be developed even if our past circumstances depleted or removed it. It’s not necessary to keep suffering with the anxiety and depression that can accompany low self-worth!
You decide: “I have suffered enough! I am worthy of better things! I am choosing to value myself and set boundaries with people who seem to enjoy reducing me. I deserve to be treated with respect!”
It’s important we say these words to our soul to give ourselves permission to rework the different aspects of our relationships with people.
People who treat others badly won’t be influenced by someone’s good behavior towards them, they see it as an opportunity to exploit the situation or the person.
It’s up to us to decide what we allow in our lives, and if someone treats us badly, we can have choices:
- If we wish to stay in a relationship, we need to have a conversation about what is acceptable and not acceptable. I suggest a neutral party such as a counselor to help facilitate this process, so both people feel heard and supported.
- If we choose to remove ourselves from the equation, care must be taken how this is done. **Please note, that abuse in marriage is much more complex, and help may be needed to accomplish this. Always be safe!
We’re all worthy of happiness, love, respect, and feeling valued. What we choose to accept in our lives is in our power to change.
More good stuff:
Teaching ourselves to like, even to love ourselves
By changing our inner dialogue, we change EVERYTHING!
Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
Making a change… “How do I take that first step?”
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
My top 10 most viewed posts, plus a few bonuses!
Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
A helpful trick to be able to overcome negatively Comparing Ourselves to others…
Do you only accept yourself if you look a certain way?
10 Steps to Owning Our Happiness
Please go to my Archived Posts page to find more wonderful posts to check out!
Blessings!
Thank you for sharing this post and for following me!
Tamara
https://tamarakulish.com/ Archived Posts: https://tamarakulish.com/archived-posts/
My books: Developing Happiness When You Can’t Find It and How to Heal Your Life on a Deep Heart Level are available in paperback and Kindle. Audio book available!
Guided Journals help you work on a particular issue by answering questions to help see patterns and to find solutions:
Removing Inner Blocks, Anger Journal, Guided Anxiety Journal Joy & Mindfulness Journal My Boundaries Journal My Inner Thoughts Journal
Thanks for buying my books on Amazon!
#writing #InspirationalWriting #journalwriting #art #creativity #strength #guru #mentor #teacher #HappinessGuru #TamaraHappinessGuru #TamaraKulish #Tamara #HappinessMentor, #love #growth #healing #life, #inspiration, #quotes #happiness #joy #PersonalGrowth #pain #depression #anxiety #SelfEsteem, #LifeSkills #empowerment #encouragement #support #intuition #journal #consciousness #mind #learn #God #universe #angels #spiritual #spirit #awareness #journaling #journal #boundaries #emotionalhealth #mentalhealth #emotions #control #Amazon #Kindle #Twitter #Goodreads #Facebook #blog #author #publishing #encouragement #angermanagement #artjournal #ColoringBooks
Tamara Kulish 
One thought on “Self-worth is so vital to your happiness. If you don’t feel good about you, it’s hard to feel good about anything else.”