This week I was introduced to Blacksmithing and I foiled a Catfisher

I had a very interesting week, let me tell you about 2 very different things I was involved with.

Last weekend my daughter and I were given a Blacksmithing workshop at the home of a friend. I met Dale when his wife Rita took over hosting the weekly art making sessions in her home after Lisa lost her place we had been meeting in.

This was in a small town, Poplar Bluff, Missouri, and when I first moved there to help my daughter when her youngest was rediagnosed with cancer, one of my first tasks was to look up painting supplies, for as an artist, I needed to know where to go to feed my addiction. I was so surprised to find out that the sleepy town had its own art museum, the Margaret Harwell Art Museum, and through the director I found out about a local group of creatives meeting in the home of an artist across the street from the museum.

After my granddaughter went into remission, I needed to find employment, and the small town didn’t offer what I needed so I moved to the city of St. Louis. Soon after, a few members of my art group moved up around the city too, including Rita and Dale, who scaled down his 40′ by 60′ workshop to half the size to 40′ by 30′. Dale has a small coal heated forge with a hand cranked air vent – very authentic.

When my daughter was seeking a Celtic belt buckle for her Viking cosplay outfit, Rita said that Dale would be happy to teach her to make it herself! This weekend we did blacksmithing, or rather she did all the heating and hammering, while I watched. Dale accidentally left the piece in the coals for a split second too long at one point, and the piece broke into 2. We were saddened that the hours of work that had gone into it might have been lost, but then Dale pulled out his welder and repaired it.

Pretty good for a first piece! I’m proud of my daughter! We’re hooked, and want to continue to learn more, and she was looking online to buy a forge to potentially add to her own garage workshop.

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A couple of weeks ago I received a notification that a comment I had made on Robert Redford’s 2015 Facebook info release of his movie “A Walk in the Woods” was just liked. Curious as to who would like an old post from 2015, I checked to see who it was, and imagine my surprise when I saw it was “Charles Robert Redford”.

I wasn’t sure if it was really him, but found it interesting that I would receive a response in the same month that I had finished my first draft of the book I had been working on that encapsulated the years that my second husband and I were working on getting a feature film made, and hubby had tried to get ahold of Redford. I thought the timing was great.

Naturally at first I was hoping that it was indeed the real Robert Redford, but I could see fairly quickly that either he was developing dementia at age 89 and not able to carry on a conversation, (I’ll spare you the whole sequence of screenshots) or, as my daughter pronounced, a catfisher. This is a term usually used for people who pretend to be someone else. I couldn’t imagine why someone would want to pretend to be Robert Redford, but my daughter suggested catfishing the catfisher, so I pretended to go along, as though he were the real deal.

Well, after he “verified” his identity it didn’t take long for him to cast his baited hook, but I threw it back to him. He persisted, saying he was going on faith to trust a stranger, so I threw the hook back more forcefully.

Having walked the hellish halls of trying to get a feature film made, failing in every way and losing every cent we had and more, plus my husband having lost his sanity, I was the last person anyone in the real film world should reach out to for help or assistance of any kind. I’m so highly allergic towards any of that now, that I am not flattered to be reached out to. Besides, even if the real Mr. Redford were having issues, he wouldn’t ask a stranger’s help when he has so many people around him to manage those things.

As I told a colleague, it would have been nice if it had been the real Mr. Redford who was interested in the weird story my book holds! *sigh*!! I suppose if anyone else reaches out, I’ll have to ask for a Zoom meeting to see the person myself!

Let me post the book synopsis below so you may get an inkling of what I’m talking about.

I hope your week held some interesting tidbits!

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Synopsis of
book – working titles – by Tamara Kulish

“Parts of my life, and so on…”

“We met on a Snowy Night”

“Echoes of the Crow”

“When the Crow Caws”

Years ago Tamara was asked to write a “making of the movie” book when her second husband, she and 2 other partners had formed a film production company. She started keeping a pre-production journal to document what they were doing, little knowing what forces would soon be unleashed in their lives. Her journal became the basis for this book when it became apparent that there was more at play than simply making a movie.

The Native American spirit that was in the original book the screenplay was based on started to make itself known to all 4 and later even extended to other people who were involved with the project in the same ways it manifested in the book. Just like the main character of the book, both men in the production company later lost their minds because they were trying to force events to follow their own vision instead of respecting what they had been told they needed to do.

The eerie parallels between the events of the book and what happened in real life were becoming apparent in their daily lives, adding to the intensity of struggling to keep finding and keep losing investment partners, which ended up bankrupting not only their money but the morals of some of the players. This story is more than the paranormal events that occurred during that time, but also what happened to the people who became addicted and obsessed with making that film, and how that tragically doomed two marriages, the author’s and that of her partners.

Tamara’s journey of self-discovery and healing is interwoven through the pages. She didn’t feel she chose that path, rather it chose her; yet she didn’t walk away from it even when it got very difficult and many others would have had the sense to. Her earlier life experiences perhaps primed her and set the stage for her to accept that journey.

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27 thoughts on “This week I was introduced to Blacksmithing and I foiled a Catfisher

    1. I wish it were the REAL Robert Redford! I’d have taken it as a good sign for my book! 🤣😂

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  1. Very interesting experience. It is unfortunate that there are so many malicious people out there scamming innocent people. I’ve dealt with a few myself and have learned from it. Unfortunately, I don’t trust anyone I haven’t met in person. And then even when I have met them, trust needs to be earned.

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    1. Very true! He revealed his intentions quickly. He kept persisting, trying to get me to go offline so I blocked him and reported him as impersonating a celebrity.

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    1. That’s an interesting switch! My daughter and I watched a video of sword making and now she’s inspired to learn how. She has the arm strength that I now lack!

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  2. Very cool Tamara! 🔥 Would love to do that and that you enjoyed the experience with your daughter makes it even more special. I am not a star-struck person however I did get goosebumps when I read who liked your comment. Fun! Best wishes with your project.

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    1. The blacksmithing was awesome! My daughter and I saw a video about sword making and she’s inspired to learn. Yes, I was disappointed to realize that it was someone posing as Robert Redford, sigh, it would have been interesting!

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  3. Your book sounds amazing! And as for the catfisher, they’re everywhere so you have to be extra careful. Even with Zoom because thanks to AI people can create fake videos now.

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    1. Thanks, it was a pretty cool week! I’m proud of my daughter for making that piece. We were watching a history Channel show, where they were showing the steps to making a quality sword blade, and she’s feeling inspired! Yes foiling the fake Robert Redford was satisfying, but a little disappointing that it wasn’t the real one!

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  4. How fun to have a lesson in blacksmithing. And even more – to have art friends over the years and locales!

    Such an interesting premise to your book. I’m looking forward to it. As to the catfishing – clearly the wisdom that helped you through the movie making business continues to run strong!

    Hope you have a great week ahead, Tamara!

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    1. Thanks Wynne! Yes having art friends through the years in different places has been a blessing! We had a great time learning about blacksmithing, it is calling to us to learn more. I’m curious to see how this book will come to market, I’m looking for an organic growth to see where it might go.

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  5. Thank the gods that there are those who enjoy blacksmithing! I learned at a young age to respect the destructive forces of the Fire God. > I became a Robert Redford fan after seeing him in “The Way We Were” with Barbra Streisand. > Your book’s theme is intriguing. Can’t wait to read it! Like the Fire God, the power of spirits,especially those of the destructive kind, should not be underestimated. A series of accidents and tragedies plagued the filming of “The Exorcist” (1973), causing some in the industry to label it as cursed.

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    1. Blacksmithing is a dying art so we were happy to be able to have a lesson. We want to join the Blacksmith Association of Missouri to be able to learn more.

      I was intrigued to think it was the real Robert Redford reaching out to me, as the timing of it was interesting.

      Funny you should mention the Exorcist movie, when we were first approached for the movie we were trying to make, the Executive Producer of the Exorcist, Noel Marshal was attached to a slasher horror version of it, we first started to become aware of the strange events. I have no desire to get involved with any negative spirits or people who are interested in them!

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  6. Thank you Mark! Yes, the timing of it spoke to me, so my hopes got raised, but reality showed that it was just someone pretending to be someone else. Still, I leave myself open to what will organically happen!

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  7. I must say, Tamara, you lead an interesting life, in part because you make it interesting. Thank you for sharing the tale of blacksmithing and multiple Robert Redfords, real or otherwise.

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    1. Lol, yes, I try to make it interesting! I say yes to opportunities and am unafraid to try new things!

      What new things will you be trying?

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  8. It is amazing when you get ‘spoken’ to in so many ways by Spirit…so off you go. But sometimes having to realize it is the ‘mishap’ of the journey you need to experience. Hence the difficulty of ‘choosing’ so many directions and not understanding why. Don’t get me wrong, I can feel your journey. But the questioning can drive you nuts. If you put much love into something Tamara I have no doubt it will speak back to you in the same way. May it definitely speak back in that love too 🤗🥰😀❤️🙏

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    1. Thank you Mark! Yes, the timing of it spoke to me, so my hopes got raised, but reality showed that it was just someone pretending to be someone else. Still, I leave myself open to what will organically happen!

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