“Before you speak to me about your religion, first show it to me in how you treat other people; before you tell me how much you love…… Read more “Show me, don’t just tell me!”
Changing the tapes chafes everything! The Fuddhist Choosing to change the inner tapes doesn’t just happen by itself but comes through mindfully choosing new thoughts and keeping…… Read more “Change the tapes!”
The Minds Journal “Of all the roads she traveled the journey back to herself was the most magnificent.” – SD The journey back to ourselves is the…… Read more “The journey back to ourselves”
“Do unto those downstream as you would have those upstream do unto you.” – Wendell Berry A different perspective on the golden rule! More: Teaching ourselves to…… Read more “The golden rule!”
HerbsHealthHappiness “Become friends with people who aren’t your age. Hang out with people whose first language isn’t the same as yours. Get to know someone who doesn’t…… Read more “See the world through other people’s eyes!”
Keep your kind heart! No matter what gets thrown at you, don’t lose yourself in the process! It’s tempting to return bad for bad, but that only…… Read more “Be kind in spite if what is thrown at you!”
Love your inner child! It’s never too late to teach all the good things to our spirits if we didn’t have an ideal childhood! I used to…… Read more “It’s never too late to teach ourselves!”
To take it further, only people who are damaged will hurt others. Healthy people won’t! Photo and quote by Tamara Kulish Available on Fine Art America…… Read more “Remember this: Only people who are damaged will hurt others. Healthy people won’t!”
“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it.” – Chinese Proverb Imagination and dreaming are the first steps to creating…… Read more “Imagine big! Dream big!”
I love Wayne Dyer! His quotes are so inspiring and I rarely feel a need to change anything yet I feel this one needs a little amplifying!…… Read more “Abundance flows”
Overcoming the Impossible!
What has your year been like? Are you preparing yourself to look at what resolutions you wish to put into place for the New Year?
What if I were to say that I don’t do resolutions anymore? Why not?
Well, by creating a list of resolutions we’re focusing our energies on what’s negative or not working in our lives. When those resolutions don’t pan out we then bathe ourselves in negative self-talk; do this year after year and our self-confidence slowly evaporates. I know that only too well. I kept putting myself through that process because I desperately wanted to heal, to grow, to change.
The toll it took on my self confidence became overwhelming, and rather than being able to move forward to where I wanted to be, I became stuck. So stuck that I felt I wouldn’t ever be able to move forward, because there was probably something so wrong with me that no matter how hard I tried, it would never happen.
So how is a person going to change, grow and move forward in life if this approach doesn’t work so well?
Well, a few years ago I heard of a brand new approach, which spoke to my yearning soul. This new way seemed focused on positivity, and echoed the new lessons in positivity I was learning from other sources.
What is that approach and how has it made a difference in my life?
When our hearts are burdened we struggle to feel positive about anything. So starting with small things is then crucial to becoming able to get strong enough to turn the light switch on in our minds and hearts and to send the shadows fleeing.
Joy. It can be tiny moments, but add them together they can become a bucketful, a lake full and even feel as expansive as an ocean! Finding moments of joy and holding onto them is very important!
The “Loser”Myth: Where did it come from?
By the time we’ve become adults, the myth of the “Loser” has become so embedded in or minds and our spirits that we no longer question if it’s true or not! We accept the myth as if it were a fact!
Opting out of the “Loser” myth…
In creating my website http://www.tamarakulish.com, I wanted to migrate over only my best articles from my old site, so as I went through previous ones, I rewrote most of them, adding more meat or making them more current. I also started making a list, and now have organized them by category.
Click the link to go to the Resources tab:
There’s now more than 50! Each link will take you directly to the article!