“Before you speak to me about your religion, first show it to me in how you treat other people; before you tell me how much you love…… Read more “Show me, don’t just tell me!”
Tag: responsibility
The journey back to ourselves
The Minds Journal “Of all the roads she traveled the journey back to herself was the most magnificent.” – SD The journey back to ourselves is the…… Read more “The journey back to ourselves”
Be kind in spite if what is thrown at you!
Keep your kind heart! No matter what gets thrown at you, don’t lose yourself in the process! It’s tempting to return bad for bad, but that only…… Read more “Be kind in spite if what is thrown at you!”
It’s never too late to teach ourselves!
Love your inner child! It’s never too late to teach all the good things to our spirits if we didn’t have an ideal childhood! I used to…… Read more “It’s never too late to teach ourselves!”
Speak of the past gratefully…
Notes from the universe: https://www.tut.com Sometimes it can be hard to think about the past gratefully isn’t it? How is this possible, you may ask, if you’ve…… Read more “Speak of the past gratefully…”
Doing the work ourselves…
Enlightened Consciousness – Alice Little I remember thinking those thoughts when I was a kid, and then learning as an adult that I needed to be the…… Read more “Doing the work ourselves…”
Imagine big! Dream big!
“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it.” – Chinese Proverb Imagination and dreaming are the first steps to creating…… Read more “Imagine big! Dream big!”
Bringing Peace Of Mind into our lives…
Peace of mind… so essential for good emotional, spiritual and physical health! We cultivate it by choosing positive thoughts!
Don’t try to “chase away” negative thoughts, rather choose positive messages and keep repeating those! Trust is those thoughts, feel good about them, and keep selecting them when things don’t appear to go well in life!
I used to be a worrier, trying to anticipate everything before it happened and trying to prepare myself for everything! I didn’t have peace of mind! My mind was trying too hard to control every outcome by thinking of every possible outcome.
How to stop being Manipulated!
Tired of being manipulated? Tired of being toyed with for selfish purposes?
How do our “masters”, that is the narcissists keep us on a “leash” and push our buttons to keep us coming back?
One word. Fear.
Fear of losing their love. Fear of not getting their approval. Fear of their anger. Fear of their retribution… that’s revenge, or as they put it, punishment.
Kudos not Kicks each year!
I love all the positive steps Etta outlines in her blog post “Be Calm, Create Your Action Plan”!
I stopped making resolutions a few years ago since they’re just self defeating! Inevitably we break them and then the cycle of guilt and negative self talk just reinforces the negative tapes that are already playing!
It’s all about LOVE! When judging hurts…
Here’s my little story of how judging someone badly can deeply affect them! It’s not fun to read.
Over fifteen years ago when I had attended the second of two evangelical churches, I was personally reduced to the point of feeling so worthless to walk on this earth or to breathe the air that I was searching for a way to quietly leave this life.
Why?
“You’re wrong about that!”
How many times has it happened that you’ve been taught to do something a certain way and someone then does it differently and you blurt out “You’re doing it wrong!”
How many times have you been sure of your facts and someone says something you’re sure is wrong and you’ve said “You’re wrong about that!” …only to be proven wrong later?
Just how DOES a person deal with this?
XXX’ed Out! Mistakes and blame.
MISTAKES…
We all make them. Some are tiny and insignificant while others are life-affecting.
BLAME…
It’s sometimes very tempting to find someone to blame it on, rather than accepting responsibility and the CONSEQUENCES ourselves.
…Responsibility…
Tamara Kulish 