Once again I’m inspired by a fellow blogger to write a post. Katherin Garland writes about the need to release and purge people, energy, and memories from…… Read more “Purge by fire… could this help you?”
Tag: toxic
There’s a fine line between positivity and denial
Edit: I found this funny/sad article about toxic workforce “positivity”, and I see how positivity has been weaponized against workers: https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/people-sharing-most-cult-job-034503536.html What is Toxic Positivity? I heard…… Read more “There’s a fine line between positivity and denial”
What is Toxic Femininity? Is it similar to Toxic Masculinity?
A brief overview of Toxic Masculinity We’ve been hearing about Toxic Masculinity a lot these days. in a recent post, I talk about “Boys don’t cry” –…… Read more “What is Toxic Femininity? Is it similar to Toxic Masculinity?”
What is Shifting, and is it really so new? Is it good for Mental Health?
Please read this interesting article ‘Reality shifting’ where users say they’re transported to another life has exploded on TikTok, but former shifters say it harmed their mental…… Read more “What is Shifting, and is it really so new? Is it good for Mental Health?”
“What kind of love do I allow in my life?”
Artwork by Tamara KulishAvailable on Fine Art America Here are a few questions many men and women have at various times: “Will I meet someone special?”, “Will…… Read more ““What kind of love do I allow in my life?””
Everyone is my teacher.
“Everyone is my teacher. Some I seek. Some I subconsciously attract. Often I learn simply by observing others. Some may be completely unaware that I’m learning from…… Read more “Everyone is my teacher.”
Be mindful, extremely selective and intentional about people you allow into your life.
“Be mindful, extremely selective and intentional about people you allow into your life. Not enough people are talking about how life-altering this is.” – S. McNutt I…… Read more “Be mindful, extremely selective and intentional about people you allow into your life.”
Sending love to everyone who’s trying their best to heal from things that they don’t discuss.
“Sending love to everyone who’s trying their best to heal from things that they don’t discuss.” Healing is hard work, and we don’t always like to talk…… Read more “Sending love to everyone who’s trying their best to heal from things that they don’t discuss.”
Your past isn’t a life sentence!
Never be a prisoner of your past. It was a lesson, not a life sentence! Letting go of the past isn’t easy. We hold tightly to what…… Read more “Your past isn’t a life sentence!”
It’s never too late to teach ourselves!
Love your inner child! It’s never too late to teach all the good things to our spirits if we didn’t have an ideal childhood! I used to…… Read more “It’s never too late to teach ourselves!”
The power of stepping away!
Change a situation by stepping away! Stepping away from a volatile situation or person is powerful! We all have the power to exercise this! Give this a…… Read more “The power of stepping away!”
Introducing a Resource page for my favorite Articles!
In creating my website http://www.tamarakulish.com, I wanted to migrate over only my best articles from my old site, so as I went through previous ones, I rewrote most of them, adding more meat or making them more current. I also started making a list, and now have organized them by category.
Click the link to go to the Resources tab:
There’s now more than 50! Each link will take you directly to the article!
Bringing Peace Of Mind into our lives…
Peace of mind… so essential for good emotional, spiritual and physical health! We cultivate it by choosing positive thoughts!
Don’t try to “chase away” negative thoughts, rather choose positive messages and keep repeating those! Trust is those thoughts, feel good about them, and keep selecting them when things don’t appear to go well in life!
I used to be a worrier, trying to anticipate everything before it happened and trying to prepare myself for everything! I didn’t have peace of mind! My mind was trying too hard to control every outcome by thinking of every possible outcome.
How to stop being Manipulated!
Tired of being manipulated? Tired of being toyed with for selfish purposes?
How do our “masters”, that is the narcissists keep us on a “leash” and push our buttons to keep us coming back?
One word. Fear.
Fear of losing their love. Fear of not getting their approval. Fear of their anger. Fear of their retribution… that’s revenge, or as they put it, punishment.
XXX’ed Out! Mistakes and blame.
MISTAKES…
We all make them. Some are tiny and insignificant while others are life-affecting.
BLAME…
It’s sometimes very tempting to find someone to blame it on, rather than accepting responsibility and the CONSEQUENCES ourselves.
…Responsibility…
Tamara Kulish 