We tend to think that our memory of a past event is correct, and we don’t often realize how we tend to edit past events to make…… Read more “We’re all prone to doing a little revisionism of our pasts!”
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Be kind to past versions of yourself that didn’t know the things you now know.
Unknown I write a lot about taking baby steps when making changes in our lives, because they are the most doable and sustainable. Baby steps don’t tend…… Read more “Be kind to past versions of yourself that didn’t know the things you now know.”
Live life so that if your life was a book Florida would ban it!
Unknown I laughed when I first saw this meme, for it seems good sport to laugh at difficult things, but then I got serious. There are layers…… Read more “Live life so that if your life was a book Florida would ban it!”
Red Flags: are they set in stone? What do Yellow Flags mean?
Photo by Tamara Kulish available on Fine Art America, quote by Maya Angelou What do you think of now when someone says something is a red flag?…… Read more “Red Flags: are they set in stone? What do Yellow Flags mean?”
Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1
Relationships, any relationships are tricky to navigate when we’re trying to communicate with someone else, and I think, especially difficult in a love-type relationship. Photo and quote…… Read more “Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1”
It’s okay to change your mind, even after making a declaration in front of family or peers!
Are we locked into a decision we may have made publicly or in front of family and friends, or is there some wiggle room to change our…… Read more “It’s okay to change your mind, even after making a declaration in front of family or peers!”
Checking in… how have you been doing with speaking kindly to yourself this week?
Speaking kindly to ourselves may not seem like much, or likely it could do any good at all, yet speaking unkindly to ourselves is devastating and definitely…… Read more “Checking in… how have you been doing with speaking kindly to yourself this week?”
Declining birthrates: is it a good thing or not?
Declining birthrates around the world are alarming many people, yet, for too long generations of people were pressured into getting married and having kids, because it was…… Read more “Declining birthrates: is it a good thing or not?”
Pushing forward after being unfairly or wrongly judged
This post was triggered by my response to Todd Fulginiti in his post “Life Is A Midway Horse Racing Game?” where he shows the parallels of a…… Read more “Pushing forward after being unfairly or wrongly judged”
Après Earth (Day). What does “colonizing” Mars have to do with Earth Day?
This post is a little different from my usual ones, but definitely inspired by the most recent Earth Day. So the Billionaires are interested in space travel,…… Read more “Après Earth (Day). What does “colonizing” Mars have to do with Earth Day?”
The inner trauma of not feeling heard can manifest obliquely and a “Karen” can be born.
I’ve been trying to figure out what has been behind the surge of “Karens” we’re seeing on social media, who seem to get easily triggered into a…… Read more “The inner trauma of not feeling heard can manifest obliquely and a “Karen” can be born.”
The steps I recently took in taking a new step forward in my life and some tips on Emotional Intelligence
– Unknown author or photographer I very recently started a new phase of my life, at a new job. I had put in my 2-weeks notice a…… Read more “The steps I recently took in taking a new step forward in my life and some tips on Emotional Intelligence”
Happy Happiness Day!
I was reminded (how could I have overlooked it?) that today is International Day of Happiness by The Hot Goddess in What is Happiness? I suppose I’ve…… Read more “Happy Happiness Day!”
Telling it like it is… is it brutal honesty or just being an a******? (Or is it about instigating drama and then stepping back to watch the show?)
I usually cringe when someone says something offensive, then shrugs it off saying they’re just saying it like it is. I don’t count myself as a prude…… Read more “Telling it like it is… is it brutal honesty or just being an a******? (Or is it about instigating drama and then stepping back to watch the show?)”
Life after Nihilism
The COVID-19 pandemic was our collective experience with Nihilism, a realization that we could die and no matter what we did or believed in would make any…… Read more “Life after Nihilism”
