You’ll never know how many parts of you are living in other people! The encouragement you gave. The kindness you showed. The confidence you helped build. We…… Read more “You’ll never know how many parts of you are living in other people!”
Category: Relationships
The rough truth about some Boomers and some parents
I have some input to give you that may shed some light on why some Boomers are the way they are.I’m a cusp Boomer, old enough to…… Read more “The rough truth about some Boomers and some parents”
What do you admire most in people?
Love is the basis for our universe, the frequency where everything grows and flourishes. Love is the state we grow into when we work on our growth and our healing. Love is the basis for kindness and empathy. Love isn’t an unlivable concept but a basis from which to grow and to model ourselves.
Do you see this as something practical to live by, and if not, why? Is this how you currently live your life or is it on your wish list when everything aligns that you would want to live this way? What are your thoughts and practices?
What I learned from Dad
Dad was a reserved man with a dry wit; you had to look for the sparkle in his eye to make sure he was joking. He really…… Read more “What I learned from Dad”
Accepting blame or responsibility for our actions shouldn’t include keeping score
Often in relationships we’re kind of blind to our own shortcoming and misdeeds, while we easily feel very comfortable with assigning more serious points to the other…… Read more “Accepting blame or responsibility for our actions shouldn’t include keeping score”
A big item needed for a relationship to succeed and how a pause in tech can help
Okay, apart from honesty, kindness, respect, emotional maturity and a sense of humor, a STEADY ATTENTION SPAN is a key ingredient to making a relationship work. Men…… Read more “A big item needed for a relationship to succeed and how a pause in tech can help”
Happy National Tamara Day!
April 10th is National Tamara Day. I have to say I was astonished to see it show up on my calendar. This is definitely better than sharing…… Read more “Happy National Tamara Day!”
Some people stay the same. Not everyone grows. Not everyone heals, or wants to.
Is this your time to grow? fb | Buddha’sTeaching One of the deepest awakenings comes when you realize not everyone grows. Some people stay the same. That…… Read more “Some people stay the same. Not everyone grows. Not everyone heals, or wants to.”
Does feeling blue send you down a rabbit hole… and have the latest months felt so much more difficult than other winters?
The other day when I left work I started to feel blue. Had it been a scant few years ago, I would have quickly spiraled. I would…… Read more “Does feeling blue send you down a rabbit hole… and have the latest months felt so much more difficult than other winters?”
Is it LOVE or just infatuation?
We want to believe ALL the love songs and Romcoms that what we have is LOVE, but is it really? Have we romanticized infatuation so much that…… Read more “Is it LOVE or just infatuation?”
Can emotional regulation help prevent crime and addictions?
This concept intrigued me when I heard it, and I don’t know if you’ve heard of it or considered it before. Meme from Facebook – author unknown…… Read more “Can emotional regulation help prevent crime and addictions?”
Become an encourager
Look for people’s strengths and support those, instead of seeking out the weaknesses or flaws. A few gentle words of encouragement lift someone else and may give them the strength they need to keep going.
The Paradox of Boundaries
As we move through the holiday seasons where friends and family gather, there’s the real-time aspect of how unhealthy relationships play out and how they can tear…… Read more “The Paradox of Boundaries”
Our greatest strength comes from interconnection, not solitary strength
Photo posted on Facebook but Steven McSweeny “Most people think sequoias survive because they’re massive. But that’s not even close to the real reason. If you’ve ever…… Read more “Our greatest strength comes from interconnection, not solitary strength”
What does Biology say about male attraction to younger women?
Ooh, I came across this video a Biologist made about male attraction to younger women, and it’s really good! So good that I had to share it.…… Read more “What does Biology say about male attraction to younger women?”
Tamara Kulish 