I’ve learned to keep an observer’s position most of the time in my life and to not jump in too quickly. This allows me time to gather…… Read more “1 of the steps towards growth and maturity”
Tag: emotional maturity
Green flagged – people who are considered good people have these traits
We’re hearing so much about how to recognize people who may be toxic or not a good it for us, yet we still need to hear more…… Read more “Green flagged – people who are considered good people have these traits”
Love is NOT all you need!
Note: This post was originally published on March 23, 2021, and has been added to! http://www.tinybuddha.com “Love is NOT all you need!You need mutual respect.You need support.You…… Read more “Love is NOT all you need!”
Telling it like it is… is it brutal honesty or just being an a******? (Or is it about instigating drama and then stepping back to watch the show?)
I usually cringe when someone says something offensive, then shrugs it off saying they’re just saying it like it is. I don’t count myself as a prude…… Read more “Telling it like it is… is it brutal honesty or just being an a******? (Or is it about instigating drama and then stepping back to watch the show?)”
The progressively shifting line of understanding what is healthy and helps growth
The line between what we think is healthy and unhealthy will shift as we go through life. We may like to think the understanding of what is…… Read more “The progressively shifting line of understanding what is healthy and helps growth”
Our best intentions often fall to the wayside…
Quote from Indian Hills Community Center sign We all know what changes we want to make in our lives and in ourselves, sometimes we’re actually successful at…… Read more “Our best intentions often fall to the wayside…”
“Telling it like it is”, it’s hurting us all…
Photo and quote by Tamara KulishClick to see on Fine Art America for all products available Recently I was attacked by a friend who had held onto…… Read more ““Telling it like it is”, it’s hurting us all…”
“Boys don’t cry” – a big lie that hurts men deeply
“Boys don’t cry” is an enduring lie told to boys which ends up crippling many men’s ability to handle emotions – all of them! Photo and quote…… Read more ““Boys don’t cry” – a big lie that hurts men deeply”
Your emotions: the quiet lazy River or the roller coaster?
My emotions can occasionally go on the roller coaster rails, usually when I’m not happy. Usually when I’m stressed and feeling trapped. Otherwise, when my life is…… Read more “Your emotions: the quiet lazy River or the roller coaster?”
Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?
Years ago a former boss had challenged me with this question “Are you a Red ocean thinker or a Blue ocean thinker?” Photo by Tamara KulishAvailable on…… Read more “Red Ocean or Blue Ocean? How do you think?”
Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a vacation, a job or with money. Part 3
Live a happy life “”Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a vacation, a job, or with money.It starts with your thinking and what you tell yourself everyday!”…… Read more “Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a vacation, a job or with money. Part 3”
Though you may hold your sword in a shaky hand, I see the demons you are slaying.
“Though you may hold your sword in a shaky hand, I see the demons you are slaying. Carry on warrior.You are stronger than you realize.” You are…… Read more “Though you may hold your sword in a shaky hand, I see the demons you are slaying.”
We’re all just walking each other home.
“We’re all just walking each other home.” – Ram Dass This past year has been the longest and probably the most difficult that any of us has…… Read more “We’re all just walking each other home.”
Everything that has happened to you is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to prevent you from growing…
Winning Path “Everything that has happened to you is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to prevent you from growing… You get to choose.” -…… Read more “Everything that has happened to you is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to prevent you from growing…”
Reviews rewarded!
Seeking reviews! If you’ve purchased my new book “Developing Happiness When You Can’t Find It” and haven’t taken the time yet to write a review on Amazon,…… Read more “Reviews rewarded!”