I’ve learned to keep an observer’s position most of the time in my life and to not jump in too quickly. This allows me time to gather…… Read more “1 of the steps towards growth and maturity”
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I value the expensive things in life!
by Jasmine L @CrystalLoversTribe We don’t typically consider these things to be expensive, in a credit card world driven by materialism, but these things do come at…… Read more “I value the expensive things in life!”
Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it!
Quote by George Bernard Shaw, meme by @philosophyflirt If your life has been at all similar to mine, you have experienced “well-meaning” people telling you that what…… Read more “Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it!”
19 signs of a healthy relationship
When we see the type of headlines as above, we often associate them with romantic love, but many of those tips can apply to other relationships too.…… Read more “19 signs of a healthy relationship”
Giving ourselves permission to be “less than” others, but still 100% ourselves
meme by Buddha Heart from Facebook James wrote we should have “Progress not perfection!” as goal in our lives, instead of having a mindset of needing to…… Read more “Giving ourselves permission to be “less than” others, but still 100% ourselves”
Misunderstandings in communication styles, Part 2, the physical aspect
In Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting I spoke about our unspoken expectations in verbal communication styles. This post will delve into physical…… Read more “Misunderstandings in communication styles, Part 2, the physical aspect”
What is the meaning of Life… urm…
James on Perfect Manifesto has asked some great questions about life, and had given some thoughtful and amusing answers. He said he will give us 3 answers…… Read more “What is the meaning of Life… urm…”
Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1
Relationships, any relationships are tricky to navigate when we’re trying to communicate with someone else, and I think, especially difficult in a love-type relationship. Photo and quote…… Read more “Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1”
Do we need to “Floor our Gas Pedal” all the time? “Consciously Uncoupling” from the “Grind Culture”.
A huge part of successfully navigating the flow of new circumstances seeking to impose conditions on us is mentally disengaging from expectations!
Expectations, ours, and our perception of others are in themselves huge stressors. Expectations often aren’t real but are what we imagine other people want from us, and vice versa.
Expectations often are very unrealistic and pay no attention to what is actually going on or what could actually happen. Expectations are often exaggerations of wishes and desires, so they need to be cut down to size, to fit with reality.
We’re all a work in progress
Perfectionism is highly prized in the current fake world of social media, creating much added mental anguish for those of us who are highly self-critical. Separating ourselves…… Read more “We’re all a work in progress”
The ‘Difficult Person Test’ – something we needed but were afraid to ask for!
I was laughing when I first read the title of the article “The ‘Difficult Person Test’ Measures 7 Key Traits—Here’s What To Know” (written by Natalie Arroyo…… Read more “The ‘Difficult Person Test’ – something we needed but were afraid to ask for!”
Wishing everyone a wonderful future!
Sending my best wishes to each of you reading, so you find the strength to do what you need to do in the next step of your…… Read more “Wishing everyone a wonderful future!”
Setting “Boundaries with consequences”
Today’s post was inspired by my blogging friend Praghalba’s poem and by a conversation we had in the comments! Setting boundaries with people who overstep can yield…… Read more “Setting “Boundaries with consequences””
An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!
This post was inspired by an answer I wrote to The Good, The Truth, The Beautiful Photo and quote by Tamara Kulish Available on Fine Art America…… Read more “An answer to dealing with the Inner Critic!”
Just do your best with what you have, at this time!
Photo and quote by Tamara Kulish Available on Fine Art America Just do your best with what you have, at this time! You don’t need to…… Read more “Just do your best with what you have, at this time!”
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