We’ve been sold on the idea that happiness is some sort of Utopia where we will feel a constant state of happiness, all of the time, and…… Read more “Happiness isn’t a destination or a Utopia, but it can be a gentle undercurrent to your life!”
Category: Relationships
Today’s spotlight page in Archived Posts: Healing and Developing Ourselves
I get hundreds visitors each week revisiting many old posts which are very helpful for Healing and Developing Ourselves, so I thought it would be helpful to…… Read more “Today’s spotlight page in Archived Posts: Healing and Developing Ourselves”
Changing how we speak to ourselves
How we speak to ourselves and how we perceive ourselves colors our experiences and in turn becomes the lens through which we filter out the world and…… Read more “Changing how we speak to ourselves”
What are the benefits of staying a victim, vs. becoming a protagonist in our own lives, and how do we do that?
You wouldn’t think there would be any benefits to being a victim or perpetuating a victim mentality would you? Quote by Mariann Williamson It would seem too…… Read more “What are the benefits of staying a victim, vs. becoming a protagonist in our own lives, and how do we do that?”
Do you like or loathe the person you see in the mirror? How does one go about changing the loathing into liking?
Deepthy’s very poetic take on what we see when we look in the mirror sparked my message. The question she wisely asks is: “So, I ask again…… Read more “Do you like or loathe the person you see in the mirror? How does one go about changing the loathing into liking?”
Changing ourselves and others
For quite a number of years we have been advised not to change ourselves for another person, based on the idea that too many people have lost…… Read more “Changing ourselves and others”
We’re all prone to doing a little revisionism of our pasts!
We tend to think that our memory of a past event is correct, and we don’t often realize how we tend to edit past events to make…… Read more “We’re all prone to doing a little revisionism of our pasts!”
Live life so that if your life was a book Florida would ban it!
Unknown I laughed when I first saw this meme, for it seems good sport to laugh at difficult things, but then I got serious. There are layers…… Read more “Live life so that if your life was a book Florida would ban it!”
“FreeCell is too hard for girls to play” and other once socially accepted nonsense…
from Facebook by Buddha heart “FreeCell is too hard for girls to play”… Myth busted, LOL! Note: this story speaks about potentially difficult topics relate to racism,…… Read more ““FreeCell is too hard for girls to play” and other once socially accepted nonsense…”
Red Flags: are they set in stone? What do Yellow Flags mean?
Photo by Tamara Kulish available on Fine Art America, quote by Maya Angelou What do you think of now when someone says something is a red flag?…… Read more “Red Flags: are they set in stone? What do Yellow Flags mean?”
More about my readers, week of Jul 17, 2023 – Jul 23, 2023
Last week we looked at where everyone come from, and this latest week showed an uptick of 22% more visitors from last week, having 1.3K people visiting…… Read more “More about my readers, week of Jul 17, 2023 – Jul 23, 2023”
Places my readers come from, week of Jul 10, 2023 – Jul 16, 2023
This time I’m sharing a snapshot from the past week. I find it fascinating to see where readers come from. As usual, I have a large number…… Read more “Places my readers come from, week of Jul 10, 2023 – Jul 16, 2023”
Newly revised Archive pages
Archived Posts Main || Mental Health and Rewiring the Brain || Healing and Developing Ourselves || Positive thoughts inspired by Memes Thanks to some of my readers…… Read more “Newly revised Archive pages”
Misunderstandings in communication styles, Part 2, the physical aspect
In Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting I spoke about our unspoken expectations in verbal communication styles. This post will delve into physical…… Read more “Misunderstandings in communication styles, Part 2, the physical aspect”
Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1
Relationships, any relationships are tricky to navigate when we’re trying to communicate with someone else, and I think, especially difficult in a love-type relationship. Photo and quote…… Read more “Misunderstandings in communication styles can lead to deep divides and fighting, Part 1”